Reflections On My Calling

It popped up in my memories today on Facebook...on February 10th, ten years ago I was sitting in a pew in a church in Alabama. I had been invited to Johnny Hunt's men conference by my pastor. He even paid for my ticket to go. Unbeknownst to me the conference would be on pornography within…

Living Lust Free: Accountability

Here is the devotional: From the beginning of my more than thirty years in counseling men who are trying to overcome lust, I have used this tip because it gives men the highest likelihood of becoming lust-free: Make a phone call. This principle has two applications. The first application is to call another man every…

Living Lust Free: Pray For Them

Here is the devotional: When you pray for someone, you automatically make them a person. They stop being the object you have spent time lusting after. I had the opportunity to be interviewed for a radio show not too long ago. The show was about a man that worked at a local college, and how…

Living Lust Free: Fighting Lust In The Moment

Here is the devotional: The battle of lust is in the moment. The minute you choose to objectify a daughter of God, you may become tempted to use reflexive reactions of minimization or denial in order to protect lustful behaviors.It is critical to create a new reflex for the times you find yourself “in the…

Living Lust Free: Lust Is A Choice

Here is the devotional: Is lust a choice or an excuse to be a “bad boy” and not take responsibility? I believe all behavior is a choice. One of the primary distinctions of our creation in God’s image is that we all have a will. We are permitted to use our will how we wish,…