Get Out Of Your Head: Thinking About Thinking

Here is the devotional: Learning to capture our thoughts matters. Because how we think shapes how we live.Lies such as I’m helpless, I’m worthless, I’m unlovable, shape our thinking, our emotions, and the way we respond to the world around us. They trap us in their cycle of distraction and distortion and pain, preventing us… Continue reading Get Out Of Your Head: Thinking About Thinking

What If I Said…..I Love You

What if I told you that I love you? Would you take those words to heart or possibly crush mine? I have to wonder how long would it take before you were to realize that my words were sincere and heart felt. Is it possible that you are afraid of the change in your life… Continue reading What If I Said…..I Love You

Reclaiming Your Identity As A Man: Stop Outsourcing Your Self-Worth

Here is the devotional: I often outsource my self-worth to other people. A client, a friend, social media, my kids, a political candidate, a football team win (in a game we aren’t actually participating in), etc.Seriously.But while some are quick to say "I don't care what other people think," you then see that same person… Continue reading Reclaiming Your Identity As A Man: Stop Outsourcing Your Self-Worth


After many years of "not" being good enough I have decided this year will be different. For many years I have laid brick-after-brick to the ground floor of my protective wall, only to look up and realize that over time I have built a huge fortress. My fortress cannot be "huffed and puffed" on and… Continue reading Walls

What If I Said You’re Beautiful?

This is one of my older posts from 2014. It was just on my mind one day after pondering why someone I cared about at the time didn't believe me when I told her that she was beautiful. What she tried to hide from the world I found to be an addition to the beauty… Continue reading What If I Said You’re Beautiful?