Mature audience – O

This is good. As a man, I can say that I was one of those who felt “lacking” in penis size due to all my porn viewing where all the guys are hand picked because of their size. I also felt discouraged because I have always been skinny.

I thank God for creating me exactly the way I am. I am actually proud of my “size” and the fact that I can find intimacy outside the bedroom. Intimacy outside the bedroom makes the intimacy in the bedroom more intense and fun.

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Mature audience – O

We overthink so much that sometimes we miss the essence of people, places and simple things in living. The true adventure of living, loving and exploring our very existence is missed.

Images thrown at us from media tells us what we are suppose to look like and feel. But we have to be mindful of the tricks and ground ourselves in reality. Especially if we hope to have lasting and meaningful relationships.

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Sexuality is sold to us on a platter , one of tricky images which tells us we are suppose to be a certain body size or image in order to be adored, or we have to be a certain age to enjoy affection or sex.

Not so, you can be whatever and whoever, sexuality is what you make of it. I’ve even touched on it in previous posts where I explored the…

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The Playground

There was once this young man that had seen things he should not have for his age. Living in a trailer park growing up, this young man, child I should say, saw older kids at the playground taking off their clothes and doing things to each other. It made him feel uncomfortable so he would… Continue reading The Playground

The Father’s Beloved: A Story Of Redemption

This story struck a cord with me. As many of you know I dealt with being bisexual for years. I can attest as to how difficult it is dealing with the mixed emotions growing up while being attracted to the same sex. I praise God for what He has done, what He is doing and… Continue reading The Father’s Beloved: A Story Of Redemption

You Are Not Broken….You Are Beautiful

Man, I truly got my heart broken the other day. And it is not in any way you would probably think. Well....I don't know...maybe it is what you think but not how and why. It was a woman, yes. Here is the deal and IT IS A BIG DEAL. Guys if you are reading this… Continue reading You Are Not Broken….You Are Beautiful

I dent (tity)

Check out this awesome quote from dear Tosin’s dad…

“Tosin, you can’t live to please everyone. If you tried, you’ll never be who God made you. What pleases the first person you meet might not please the next, soon you’ll forget who you really are, and you’ll be a chameleon changing colours only to survive but never really living!”

How many of us wish our parents had said that to us as teens?

Now, go read Tosin’s amazing post! Heck, if your like me, read it twice. Then share it so others can be ministered to.

Alethea's Mind

I’m dented. In many places, I have dents – dents and scratches from the ‘hit-and-runs’ of life and her mercenaries. Dents from her words and his actions and dents from their stares. I’ve lost, in many ways, the purity of my identity; the way my Creator fashioned me: for the sake of conformity.

I dent, daily.

I struggle. I remember being young and looking for love in all the wrong places because I was consumed by a need – an empty space inside that needed to be filled, so I filled it with all the wrong things and all the wrong bits around the wrong people. I dented my identity to fit into those circles when my mould wasn’t so elastic, so it broke . . . and I still struggle.

“You’re too loud, hush!”

“You’re too playful, halt!”

You’re too . . . not like me, stop!”

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