You Are Not Broken….You Are Beautiful

Man, I truly got my heart broken the other day. And it is not in any way you would probably think. Well....I don't know...maybe it is what you think but not how and why. It was a woman, yes. Here is the deal and IT IS A BIG DEAL. Guys if you are reading this… Continue reading You Are Not Broken….You Are Beautiful

Dear Hollywood, That Is Not How It Works

Dear Hollywood, Would you please stop giving young men and women the wrong impression on sex? Maybe your screen writers are living out their sexual fantasies through the scripts for a certain scene, which by the way was not even needed in the film...but hey, sex sells. But if you are going to have those… Continue reading Dear Hollywood, That Is Not How It Works

Mirror Series VI

How did it get so bad? I spent the whole night crying and not sleeping! How did it get so bad you ask? Well...let's go back and allow me to explain a few things to you along the way. So you feel it all began with the naked women and the playing cards, right? Yes.… Continue reading Mirror Series VI

Understanding Men: Porn Issues

Ok, ladies and gents. I have a question or two or three. These questions are in reference to the Understanding Men collaboration between Charity and I. She messaged me and asked me why no one is commenting or liking our posts. I think I know why but I would like your cooperation... Is it because… Continue reading Understanding Men: Porn Issues

The Label You Wear Isn’t Always Accurate

But we don’t have to play into Satan’s hands. We can correct our erroneous beliefs and develop an accurate and genuine assessment of our true selves. And we begin by understanding God’s assessment of our worth.

This is how shame is defeated and the recovery can truly begin.

Sexually Pure Men

By Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., LPC, C-CSAS

Those who struggle with addictive behaviors most likely have a laundry list of terms to describe themselves — and as you would imagine, none of them are complementary. There is an intense shame that comes with addiction, especially for those who struggle with porn. I believe shame is the strongest barrier to recovery. The constant battle to “get it right” and failing time and time again leads those addicted feeling defeated and hopeless.

Many of the negativelabels we wear are nothing more than lies we have come to believe woven into our identity. Lies such as “I’m not smart,” “I don’t measure up, “I am unlovable,” “I am worthless,” “I’m weak,” and “I am a mistake.”

We tell ourselves numerous mistruths, and we carry them around like ID cards. These are identities filled with hurt, pain, and shame. Songwriter and performer Matthew West wrote…

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