You Can’t Heal What You Refuse To Confront

Here in lies a very big truth. No matter what you struggle with, you can not heal if you refuse to confront the core issue. True freedom comes with surrendering everything. If you are not willing to allow God into that big closet that houses all those hurts you've been hanging on to, you will… Continue reading You Can’t Heal What You Refuse To Confront

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Struggling with sexual sin

This post meant a lot to me for multiple reasons. One being that women are becoming addicted to porn and masturbation at an alarming rate and it breaks my heart.

Eniola is a voice shouting at the monster and saying there is freedom.

The second reason this meant so much to me was that a dear friend mentioned the whole box scenario to me just the other day and to then read it here was a confirmation to me. My lid to that box is closed and put away not to be opened again. Here is what Eniola had to say about the box…

I have opened the box before but I have also forced the lid shut, so I acknowledge that it’s going to be harder for me to keep it shut after opening it before. So I don’t take chances.

Eniola Adeeko

Have you ever wondered why God gave us all these raging hormones and intense feelings, yet he asks us not to express them until we’re married. It’s like giving a child a box of tantalizing chocolates and asking him not to open them until a day or time that may never come.

I feel like that a lot of times. I think there’s just something about being young that makes us burn with passion. Even the Apostle Paul recognises this. The world that we live in does not make things easier. Everywhere you go, something about sex is thrown into your face. Sex has been idolised and made the newest trend. It’s like a train every young person wants to catch.

At one point or the other, we’ll be sorely tempted to give in to the demands of our flesh and if you’re like me, I have given in a…

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Breaking The Chains: One Link At A Time

Guys, I have wanted to do this for a while now and well...I'm finally getting around to it. THIS WILL BE AN ONGOING UPDATED POST as I come across more links to share with you. There are some great posts out there about why you should stop viewing pornography! I believe that we do not… Continue reading Breaking The Chains: One Link At A Time

How Long Lord?

What a simple yet very profound question. One I know has been asked many, many times in my life and by others. You don't have to be an addict, of any sort, to feel the need to ask that question. You could simply be struggling with finances, dealing with co-worker issues, battling depression or praying… Continue reading How Long Lord?

It’s Time To Let Go Of All That Hinders You

One of the things I did when I gave up porn was grab all my pornographic material and headed to local dumpster. I opened my trunk and threw everything in there. I had to...I just had to do it. This Scripture reemphasizes why I needed to do that. I had to get rid of the… Continue reading It’s Time To Let Go Of All That Hinders You

When The Walls Of Stress Tear You Down

Do you remember the smell of that new house or apartment you moved into? Do you remember the sense of security you felt knowing the walls would not cave in around you? Do you remember putting things in the house that made you feel good even if it did not go with the decor of… Continue reading When The Walls Of Stress Tear You Down

I Believed I Was His Every Fantasy Come True ~ A Letter From A Wife

An email received led to a night of tears and prayer for this couple. Please know each one of these I post hurt me deeply as I know several of these women that send me emails explaining their hurt from their spouses porn usage...so therefore..I know their husband as well. My first experience with pornography… Continue reading I Believed I Was His Every Fantasy Come True ~ A Letter From A Wife