Sex, Is It All About Us?

Why is it that most women feel that sex is always about us guys? I have been pondering that question for years I mean sex is NOT all we think about. If it was; nothing at all, in this world, would get done. There are plenty of other things that we think about or should....…

Dear Porn Addict

Dear porn addict, Have you ever thought of what your click of the mouse does to someone? Have you ever thought of the woman you are watching and how she feels? Probably not! You just want your quick fix, get off and go about your "normal" routine and then click the mouse when you need…

From A Porn Scene Mentality To Intimacy With Your Wife

This is something that has been on my heart for a while now guys and honestly, I may lose some followers after this post or I may gain a few. I have been a recovering porn addict for almost six years now and through my various ministries on social media have had many wives reach out…

Is It Possible For Intimacy To Lead To Orgasm

So many husbands are out there suffering in silence. They may speak of it to their closest and most trusted friend. But more than likely they keep it to themselves, because if they say anything they fear they will be looked at as less of a man. Yet, one thing I know from my own…

It’s In The Cards

In my post Learning to Dance in the Dark I mentioned trying to make up your own game for your date/sex night. This is actually something I always wanted to try but never did. We even talked about it and had actually decided on some mutual ideas. We just never followed through. I know that…