Understanding Men | Is It Ever A Good Idea For A Woman To Watch Porn With Her Man? 

Here is the second installment in mine and Charity’s collaboration on understanding men and their “need” for porn.

I must say that Charity’s response to my answer was, to me, better than my answer to the question. Ladies, Charity has been there. If you are dealing a husband’s porn problem reach out to her.

Now head on over and leave us your comments. We would love to hear from you!

Confessions and Thoughts of a Reluctant Preacher's Daughter

*Warning: This post contains content that may be offensive or explicit. My backstory is an honest account of past events that I would not repeat or recommend.

I am constantly trying to understand men. Whenever I am hurt or puzzled over something a man does, I try to find out the intention and meaning behind it. I can often be found saying, “I don’t want to hate men, I want to understand them.” One issue that puzzles me is pornography. I would like to understand why men like to look at it and how to react when they do. I asked my good friend, Stuart, over atSomething To Stu Overif he would be interested in collaborating with me on a series about pornography. Specifically, why men choose porn & what can we as girlfriends/wives expect. Stuart is fantastic at explaining why men do what they do and he…

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Understanding Men | Why Do Men Look At Pornography? 

Hey everyone😊 The collaboration between Charity & I has officially begun. Go check it out. Leave your comments. Let us hear from you.

Charity, thank you so much for this wonderful opportunity to collaborate with you♥️

Confessions and Thoughts of a Reluctant Preacher's Daughter

*Warning: This post contains content that may be offensive or explicit. My backstory is an honest account of past events that I would not repeat or recommend.

This is a new series for me. I’ve been wanting to do something like this for awhile and I am finally getting around to it.

Ok, here we go:

I am constantly trying to understand men. Whenever I am hurt or puzzled over something a man does, I try to find out the intention and meaning behind it. I can often be found saying, “I don’t want to hate men, I want to understand them.” One issue that puzzles me is pornography. I would like to understand why men like to look at it and how to react when they do. I asked my good friend, Stuart, over at Something To Stu Over if he would be interested in collaborating with me on…

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Reflections On Giving My Testimony

Wow! Today marks the 8th year anniversary of me giving my testimony on stage at the Wrestling For Your Life Men's Conference. I remember listening to the opening worship band and my phone rings😮 Seeing who called I stepped out of the auditorium and took the call. It was Angie calling to tell me she… Continue reading Reflections On Giving My Testimony

Mirror Series Part V

This is driving me crazy! I mean all these years of making love to him. Was it even me he was thinking about? Or was I just the body being used as he fantasized of another?!?😡 I could answer those questions but as we speak I am working on your husband. It will be his… Continue reading Mirror Series Part V

HOW PORN DISTORTED MY VIEW OF SEX

My brother in Christ has penned a thought provoking post guys. In here is a answer to his wife’s question that honestly threw me for a loop. Well, his answer didn’t..it was the fact that he answered. Most men would not have done so.

I love this brother. He has helped so much in ministering to porn/sex addicts. Not only is he an administrator on my Facebook page Resurrecting The Redeemed From Porn Addiction and it’s associated groups…he has written a book on his own porn struggle and coming open about it. The link to his book is at the bottom of his post.

Jesus Is The Best

Yesterday, at a friend’s recommendation, I read a blog post where a loving, Christian wife encouraged others to perform oral sex on their husbands.  (She provided more details than I will include here, as I plan to keep this rated PG-13 or below.)

I found it interesting that right off the bat she stated that many husbands have watched porn where men degrade women and use women for their own self-gratification.  She also mentioned how a husband might want his wife to do something to recreate a scene from porn.

This took my mind back to where I was several years ago when I was caught up in the compulsive cycle of porn.  My wife knew nothing about my addiction.  I can remember buying certain kinds of clothing for her to wear when we were having sexual relations, because I had seen and been aroused by it in porn.

Years…

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