The Great I Am

I AM the answer to your addiction! I AM the answer to your struggle! I AM the answer to you pain! I AM the answer to your financial situation! I AM the answer to that hole in your heart! I AM the answer to your loneliness! I AM the answer to your lack of joy!… Continue reading The Great I Am


Things Seen Cannot Be Unseen

One of the hardest things I had to fight while quitting my 30 year addiction to porn was the images stuck in head. Even now, it's a struggle. Some times I believe that I received freedom from that ball and chain to only find myself stuck behind a fence with true freedom just on the… Continue reading Things Seen Cannot Be Unseen

How Long Lord?

What a simple yet very profound question. One I know has been asked many, many times in my life and by others. You don't have to be an addict, of any sort, to feel the need to ask that question. You could simply be struggling with finances, dealing with co-worker issues, battling depression or praying… Continue reading How Long Lord?

Testimony of Freedom

There are several things I have learned over the years in struggling with my porn addiction. One is in the fact that what works for one person may not work for another. Marriage does not cure a pre-existing porn addiction. It can not be done without an accountability partner. And despite what some people will… Continue reading Testimony of Freedom

Dear Porn Star: Please Forgive Me

Warning: Reader discretion is advised. I am not holding words or descriptions at bay here! I have some apologies to make and I need to do it sooner than later. This is something God put on my heart tonight while I was driving home from work. A part of my personal healing. But He did… Continue reading Dear Porn Star: Please Forgive Me

Being Open Makes for Deeper Relationships

One of the greatest lies that porn teaches us is that we are in control and that we don’t need anyone else to find satisfaction in life. We reason with ourselves: “I can find instantaneous comfort and relief from the click of a mouse or a swipe on my phone.” Sex addiction teaches us that… Continue reading Being Open Makes for Deeper Relationships