My brother in Christ has penned a thought provoking post guys. In here is a answer to his wife’s question that honestly threw me for a loop. Well, his answer didn’t..it was the fact that he answered. Most men would not have done so.
I love this brother. He has helped so much in ministering to porn/sex addicts. Not only is he an administrator on my Facebook page Resurrecting The Redeemed From Porn Addiction and it’s associated groups…he has written a book on his own porn struggle and coming open about it. The link to his book is at the bottom of his post.
Yesterday, at a friend’s recommendation, I read a blog post where a loving, Christian wife encouraged others to perform oral sex on their husbands. (She provided more details than I will include here, as I plan to keep this rated PG-13 or below.)
I found it interesting that right off the bat she stated that many husbands have watched porn where men degrade women and use women for their own self-gratification. She also mentioned how a husband might want his wife to do something to recreate a scene from porn.
This took my mind back to where I was several years ago when I was caught up in the compulsive cycle of porn. My wife knew nothing about my addiction. I can remember buying certain kinds of clothing for her to wear when we were having sexual relations, because I had seen and been aroused by it in porn.
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