You Are Not Broken….You Are Beautiful

Man, I truly got my heart broken the other day. And it is not in any way you would probably think. Well....I don't know...maybe it is what you think but not how and why. It was a woman, yes. Here is the deal and IT IS A BIG DEAL. Guys if you are reading this…

Dear Hollywood, That Is Not How It Works

Dear Hollywood, Would you please stop giving young men and women the wrong impression on sex? Maybe your screen writers are living out their sexual fantasies through the scripts for a certain scene, which by the way was not even needed in the film...but hey, sex sells. But if you are going to have those…

Understanding Men: Porn Issues

Ok, ladies and gents. I have a question or two or three. These questions are in reference to the Understanding Men collaboration between Charity and I. She messaged me and asked me why no one is commenting or liking our posts. I think I know why but I would like your cooperation... Is it because…

Understanding Men | Once A Man Is Addicted To Pornography, Will He Always Struggle With It?

Here is the 3rd segment in mine and Charity’s collaboration on understanding men. This one was a little hard for me as I had to come forward and say yes I fell after 9 years clean. But I have always said I would be honest with the reader.

Yes, freedom from porn IS possible but you have to want to be free!

Men, if you are struggling and need someone to talk to just send me an email at stubaby777@gmail.com.

Charity, thank you for reaching out and asking me to do this with you! I am honored! I really enjoyed your response. And Every Man’s Battle is a good starting point.

Confessions and Thoughts of a Reluctant Preacher's Daughter

*Warning: This post contains content that may be offensive or explicit.

I am constantly trying to understand men. Whenever I am hurt or puzzled over something a man does, I try to find out the intention and meaning behind it. I can often be found saying, “I don’t want to hate men, I want to understand them.” One issue that puzzles me is pornography. I would like to understand why men like to look at it and how to react when they do. I asked my good friend, Stuart, over atSomething to Stu Overif he would be interested in collaborating with me on a series about pornography. Specifically, why men choose porn & what can we as girlfriends/wives expect. Stuart is fantastic at explaining why men do what they do and he is excellent at giving advice. I sent him a list of questions to answer and each…

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Reflections On Giving My Testimony

Wow! Today marks the 8th year anniversary of me giving my testimony on stage at the Wrestling For Your Life Men's Conference. I remember listening to the opening worship band and my phone rings😮 Seeing who called I stepped out of the auditorium and took the call. It was Angie calling to tell me she…