One of the hardest things I had to fight while quitting my 30 year addiction to porn was the images stuck in head. Even now, it's a struggle. Some times I believe that I received freedom from that ball and chain to only find myself stuck behind a fence with true freedom just on the… Continue reading Things Seen Cannot Be Unseen
The first time I heard this song I bawled my eyes out. I actually pulled over to the side of the road as I just could not concentrate. The lyrics just hit me in the gut. I am an ex-porn addict that started way too young. Be careful little eyes what you see. It's the… Continue reading It’s a Slow Fade
How many times have you prayed for a breakthrough, in whatever you are going through, wondering when it was coming? How many times have you looked at that, sometimes, overwhelming brick wall and have wondered if any of those bricks are going to fall so you can at least some light? I know I have.… Continue reading Come On God, When Will My Breakthrough Come?
Hey guys. Today I have the privilege and honor of joining several other men as a collaborative group for Active Manhood on the topic of Strong Fathers Strong Daughters. Among the other men writing for this post are Prescott, Brad, Tim, and Scott. Each of us give a brief description on what we, as dads, feel… Continue reading Strong Father Strong Daughters: A Collaborative Effort
If, you have ever been near a lake, pond or a creek I am sure, at one time or another, you have seen a tree or two that look like the Tasmanian Devil got a hold of them. You know the ones where the bark is missing and if you get up close you will… Continue reading Standing Firm: Stay Alert
You know people will tell me that they love my blog because it is real, honest and about life. Real issues for real people kinda thing. And I truly appreciate the fact that many do find my blog interesting. When I started this blog, I was still struggling with a porn problem and a divorce.… Continue reading Goodbye 2017 Welcome 2018
One of the things I have NEVER understood is how a man can go months without giving any attention and or affection to the woman he loves. I simple can not, for the life of me, grasp the concept of no attention to the one you love. I don't mean the unwanted attention like "Where… Continue reading Guys, Do Not Stop Showing Affection