HOW PORN DISTORTED MY VIEW OF SEX

My brother in Christ has penned a thought provoking post guys. In here is a answer to his wife’s question that honestly threw me for a loop. Well, his answer didn’t..it was the fact that he answered. Most men would not have done so.

I love this brother. He has helped so much in ministering to porn/sex addicts. Not only is he an administrator on my Facebook page Resurrecting The Redeemed From Porn Addiction and it’s associated groups…he has written a book on his own porn struggle and coming open about it. The link to his book is at the bottom of his post.

Jesus Is The Best

Yesterday, at a friend’s recommendation, I read a blog post where a loving, Christian wife encouraged others to perform oral sex on their husbands.  (She provided more details than I will include here, as I plan to keep this rated PG-13 or below.)

I found it interesting that right off the bat she stated that many husbands have watched porn where men degrade women and use women for their own self-gratification.  She also mentioned how a husband might want his wife to do something to recreate a scene from porn.

This took my mind back to where I was several years ago when I was caught up in the compulsive cycle of porn.  My wife knew nothing about my addiction.  I can remember buying certain kinds of clothing for her to wear when we were having sexual relations, because I had seen and been aroused by it in porn.

Years…

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2 thoughts on “HOW PORN DISTORTED MY VIEW OF SEX”

  1. This is a really great post. It captures both the husband’s struggle (perspective) and the impact it had on the wife so well. I really applaud this writer for having the courage to be so honest and transparent.

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    1. It took a lot guts for Hugh to write this. Very proud of him and at the same time I felt bad because the post he read was in my post picks for the month. So it was my recommendation that made him remember. But at the same time his honesty needed to be shared with the world. I am conflicted in emotions.

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