Thank you so much Amy for tagging me in the Share Your Passion Tag! These are so much fun 😊
Rules of the #ShareYourPassion Tag:
- Repost the #ShareYourPassion logo (above) on your acceptance post.
- Tag the blogger’s site that nominated you.
- Share a bit about your passion(s): Hobbies outside of blogging that keep you busy in your free time. What would you like to accomplish with these things? How could you use your passion(s) to be a blessing to others and show them the love of God?
- Nominate ten other bloggers and spread the joy!
One of my other passions is…yep you guessed it…sex.
And for more reasons than most men or women think.
You see after being addicted to porn for so long…my everything about sex was totally warped. The way I performed foreplay was warped. I had no idea the amount of pleasure one could get from all that fun 😊
But because of the porn I had body and performance issues as well. I literally thought something was wrong with me…
And because of that I even asked God to take away all sexual desire. That way I wouldn’t feel bad about myself or hurt the person I’m with mentally or physically. I didn’t want to let them down.
That worked for a few years. Until a special someone came back into my life. She was very patient knowing my background. She knew my mental issues about sex and everything! Because I trusted her completely. She knows it all.
And through her patience and understanding I begin to see sex for what it really is!
Never in a million years would I have ever believed that a simple touch could send chills down my spine a week later just from thinking of the sensation of her hand touching my arm so gently.
Never in a million years would I have ever thought that the act of sex was more than a physical act. Oh, but it is! It is bonding unlike any other. It is physical. It it mental. It is spiritual!
Porn takes all those and throws them in the dumpster. It’s just a selfish act of pleasure void of love and joy!
See with porn it’s all about me and what I want/need at that moment.
Sex with the one you love is about pleasing each other! Putting the others desires before your own.
It was with that special woman that I found out that foreplay is way more than oral sex. It incorporates hugs, kisses, touches and little I love you texts through the day.
Sex is freaking amazing when your partners pleasure is in the forefront! Why? Because it shows them you respect them enough to take the time to please them first. And those little kisses, texts and hugs let them know you want THEM and no other.
I could go on and on but I won’t out of courtesy to a few readers.
But that’s why I want men to realize how destructive porn is to their marriage/relationship!
Men, we get clean from porn, sex actually means something!