There is an interesting story in scripture where the disciples rebuke those bringing children to Jesus.
For you see back in those days children were of no “importance” (not a productive member of) to society until they reached a certain age. Maybe the disciples felt that the children were just not important enough considering all the healing and teaching Jesus was doing…you know the “important” stuff. But you see Jesus was much displeased at them for doing this.
Here are Christ’s words:
Permit the little children to come unto me, forbid them not; for such is the kingdom of God.
Here’s the cool part. Jesus took them up in his arms, put his hands upon them, and blessed them.
Parents, we must pick our children up, (until they get too big of course) for this shows our affection towards them. Something they desperately need.
We must put our hands on them and bless them. Bless means to praise and if our children do something good (even the smallest to us, is a big deal to them) we should praise them for doing good. ALL children, no matter their age, need to know that mommy and daddy are proud of them!
To me, the most important one is where Jesus said forbid them not. Now, I know we get busy as parents…but we should NEVER turn our children away from us. For if we do that too often, as they grow older, they will feel that they can not come to us and therefore will ask the hard questions in life outside the home instead of in the safety of it.
We must be there for our children! We must hold them , love them, teach them and nurture them.
*This was originally a post I wrote for my Spritual Leaders of the Family Facebook page back in 2013*
Oh, it takes so much wisdom from God to walk that delicate balancing line between love, acceptance, and nurturing; and discipline and moderation.
Good post, Stuart!
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Thank you Kathy! You are so right. I wish I had asked for that wisdom when the kids were younger.
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Me too!
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Love this pic! And so true. We have to show our children affection. It’s so important that they hear us say we love them. It’s essential to their self-esteem.
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When I thought of this post I remembered this pic from my children’s Bible growing up 🙂
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My sister also had one of those bibles. Hers had Jesus holding a child on the cover of it..
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I completely agree! Children are so important and that we often treat them as a burden is indeed a tragedy!
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There’s a post idea. Because I do know some friends that really feel as if their children are a burden
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Thank you so much for sharing Winnie. Congrats on all your awards. All well deserved!!
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